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Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Let today be an insight from yesterday & the base for a new plan for tomorrow

How many of us keep pondering about something which happened today/yesterday/ day before yesterday/ years before yesterday..?

  • A fight that we had with our parents leading us t conclude ‘they just don’t love me enough’.. (everyone must have experienced this)
  • Or a horrible messy argument with your loved one which leads to ‘‘ohh, I’m gonna loose him forever’’ / ‘‘how could he do this to me?’’
  • a non-competent feeling because your boss did not praise you enough for your efforts.. “she’s just partial towards XYZ”
  • a huge fight with your confidant.. your bestest friend.. which completely lets you down.. may even make you feel like never speaking to him/ her ever again..
  • A tiff with a colleague/acquaintance at college.. leading you to say “he/she is so selfish, I would never do that again”

All of us in our life must have experienced similar feelings & experiences while dealing with people & circumstances.. but we keep thinking & thinking & thinking about it at least for sometime..

Today something happened which made me smile & realize how I can see things differently..

I have loads of ‘post-its/ notes’ on my desk on my side board which reminds me what do I have to do today..

Every morning I come to my desk, remove all the post-its / notes which have yesterday’s date on it.. and make fresh one’s for that very existing day.

I never have any problems dealing with work/over-work/ too much over much/ today’s commitments.. because I know I have sorted my yesterday and ended it there and then. I don’t carry forward my yesterday’s work to today.

If we start doing that for our personal life with friends/relatives/family/ situations.. would we ever be unhappy/disappointed?

If we have had an argument with someone today, firstly stop blaming the other person completely. If still you feel it’s the other person’s mistake – fine! Face it, accept it that he/she doesn’t care and move on. Take a decision to alter your behaviour. Two things will happen – a.) person will realize their mistake if you give a cold shoulder b.) you are not thinking, so you are anyways happy irrespective

If every problematic situation we faced YESTERDAY can be taken as a consumer truth, whats the consumer NEED GAP & then identify the reason of the FRICTION/ BARRIER.

Generate an insight, implement it to your today. The pay off will be ‘A HAPPIER YOU’.

Let today be an insight from yesterday & the base for a new plan for tomorrow

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Neha.. main apni favourite hoon.. :): Into each life some rain must fall…

Neha.. main apni favourite hoon.. :): Into each life some rain must fall…

Into each life some rain must fall…

Could not stop myself writing this one..
Sleep got disturbed early morning with a mild sound of thunder..
I was almost speaking to myself ‘I have to send out a deliverable today’.. wake up Neha.. wake up..
Rushed and got ready..
Transcripts in one hand and an apple in the other.. ran out looking for a cab..
Did not realize it’s pouring and it’s indeed a beautiful day 
I neither got a cab for very long.. nor was there any sign of a harbor line train..
I was standing there under the umbrella with a pretty sad not knowing what to do next face..
Just then a little kid from the neighbourhood splashed water on my legs and said “aaap khush nai ho? Aaj toh chutti.. majjaaa” and there she ran getting wet in the rain deliberately to enjoy the last few showers…
I walked behind her smiling reminiscing my days of buchpan when I would not leave a single chance to get wet in the rain..
God! Running behind work, gym, clients, bosses.. some where I had forgotten to take a breather and enjoy that moment..
Life can get too busy, too nasty.. people we have in our life may change.. people we share things with may not have that much time to listen to us anymore.. people might get mood swings and not respond to texts or calls.. people may act pricy.. people may find you kiddish.. people may not find ‘getting wet in the rain’ as enjoyable even if they might have spent their entire buchpan doing that..
Who cares? Its their loss.. don’t make it yours..
Don’t stop yourself from enjoying these little moments of bliss 
Enjoy the beautiful blissful weather while it lasts…
We all need some rain.. to wash off the baggage.. to feel wow .. to start afresh.. to feel we’re ready to face the sun again..
Thank you god :)
I pray that into each life some rain must fall..

Friday, December 24, 2010

Life has no full stops....

LIFE has no fullstop....
it jus keeeps going wid speed wich is at its top....

People come and go from your life.....
you loved some1 but you'll end up being some1 else's wife.....

yet we take it in our stride and dont let it pile on.....
thats life and we move on......

during teenage i never understud what does move on mean.....
and then evry day life taught me its meaning- yea thats how life has been.....

Few people whom i loved like crazy and hell.....
those people have disappeared from my life's shell....

Life shocks us and depresses us at times and gives us an option to whine on.....
yet we havte to accept evrything and move on.....

Life does not have any fullstop....
we havto get up, dress up and show up.....

Being totally frustrated today made me look at the nice things in my life.....
jus when a loser left my life.....its without trife....

im happy and content with wat i have and i have so much of love with me.....
Jus dat today i really got all this to seeee

So im glad life does not have a fullstop to it.....
coz im ready for each and every bit :) :)

A world full of moments....

Down i was walking to the station through the crowded lane

There i saw a couple holding hands waiting for the train.....



i saw myself in them and smiled a bit....

i thot a moment from my past just lit....



I dreamt and walked ahead and pondered for a while

In the crowded street i found a lost memory that made me smile.....



i got into the train and stared in space

a girl sitting next to me was mushily talking to her guy in craze....



again it bought a tint in my eyes....

coz these were the same moments that bought sunshine in those dark nights....



i was walking towards the office and it started raining wid a blast

and there i saw another couple sharing their umbrella.... left me again aghast.....



with a twinkle in my eye i thought again right there....

thit is exactly how it happenend and yea i did receive the love of my share....



i stood near the door feeling the drops of rain....

how many moments like dis each day we gain....



we see a girl.... a couple.... a love somehwhere....

and always we try and see ourselves in their affair....



And then a sms buzzed and said....."neha i miss you"

Aah! at last there was a smile - so pure and true.....



i immediately messaged "miss u too....where have you been dear...."

He said i was right there in all the moments that made u smile when u were lookin at your near....



and then i relaised love may not be around u all the time....

but if your feelings are true.... something everyday will make you heart sing that same rhyme!!

Freshers Mind....

Sitting in a glass cabin at work
i write from there today.....

Calls, deadlines & boses smirk
i face that often all day....

Its raining out and i wana shout....
& i wana fly to touch the rain showers sprout.....

The AC's cold gets on to me.....
but the feel of cold rain drops maketh me hapy and glee....

During work....i forget the true neha at times.... who wants to be set free
but then im on my dream line.....& and i need to grow stronger like a tree....

Exhausted with work i let the writer neha take on.....
Excuse me i really didn't mean to ramble on.....

Its just my way of speaking my heart out.....
Having said this..... back to work.... without a doubt....

-- Neha

An enocunter with the corporate world....

I feared my entry in the corporate swirl….

Coz I have heard many past cases and twirls……


They are ruthless and mean…..

And often in frustration, smoking they are seen


They screw you and expect you to slog

Few prefer to suck up like a dog


Mind you, there are bitches here too, I must say

& hell save u if she’s in a bad mood – be ready to pray


Yes, money is one thing important in life

But for me appreciation of your hardwork is essential after all those sleepless night’s trife


Remember friends, when we grow up and reach that high place

Appreciate, acknowledge and add praise to your grace


Everyone around you works and tries their best

Try and eliminate one person and then u will realize the stress


For future, I pledge to never be egoistic and unreasonable to my subordinate team

Coz I wanna be an individual who is every professional’s dream !!